No Vers or Bottom Men Need Apply!!

First name

Blu

I Can Speak

English, Spanish

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a Black & Beautiful Transwoman (BBT), who is confident in who I am as a person and what I have to offer a potential partner. I am independent, smart, funny, emotionally and mentally available Transwoman seeking a Top only White Male who only has interest in Transwomen!!

Your minimal effort gets my minimal effort! What that means is that I match the effort you put into getting to know one another. Please no versatile, bottoms or men who have bottomed / wants to bottom type men. Please no Crossdressers, no TV's, no men that have interest in other men. no smokers, no drug users, no liars and no cheaters, no emotionally unavailable men.

I’m a blend of shy and bold, soft and spirited, observant and playful. I can be the one who lights up the room or the one who listens quietly with a knowing smile. I’m layered, intuitive, and full of warmth. My humor ranges from clever to campy to a little mischievous — I love to laugh, and I love when someone can laugh with me.

What I Find Attractive
Wit, empathy, confidence, flirtation, intelligence, humor, spontaneity, and a man who stands firmly in who he is.
Relationship Intent
I’m open to friendship, dating, intimacy, commitment, marriage — whatever grows naturally, beautifully, and in alignment with both of our hearts.

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Secret Piercings, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo, Other

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Administrative Assistant

I Make This Much In A Year

More Than $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Anti-social, Boisterous, Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Loud, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved, Shy, Party Starter, Fire Starter

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Computers, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Shopping, Theater, Travel, Tv

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A cool night under the stars, wrapped in conversation that feels natural and unhurried. A moment where time slows down, the world gets quiet, and it’s just two people discovering each other. I don’t need extravagance — I need sincerity.

I've Always Wanted To Try

New foods, new experiences, new memories — Ethiopian, Guatemalan, and anything that expands my world.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Perfect, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt, I Don't Have Any Friends

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

My goal in life to grow and be the best person that I can be as a person.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Sadistic, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Dance, Electronic, Gospel, Jazz, Latin, Metal, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock, Soul

When I Read, I Always Read

I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

Dining out, photography, arts & crafts, learning, music, movies, gaming, dancing, theater, travel, cooking, shopping, cards, computers — I enjoy a little bit of everything. I’m easy to be around and happiest in moments filled with good food, good music, and genuine connection.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Oddities, Power, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

I honor my peace, my standards, and my heart. I’m not interested in men who are versatile, bottom, crossdress, or are attracted to men. I’m also not interested in smokers, drug users, liars, cheaters, or anyone emotionally unavailable. I’m clear about what aligns with me — and what doesn’t.

What Makes Me Smile
• A man who smells good and speaks with intention
• Soft moments that turn into lasting memories
• Banter that feels effortless
• Chemistry that unfolds naturally
• Someone who sees me — truly sees me
My Love Language
Consistency, thoughtful gestures, and a man who shows his interest through action, not just words.

Someone that has not been emotionally and mentally through the ringer from dating. Your minimal effort gets my minimal effort!!

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other, Marriage